Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

Friday, October 25, 2019

Then and now


I tell myself, in those days
I didn’t understand much about love,
though I did love
(as now I see we all do)
haplessly, perhaps,
helplessly at times,
with an intensity that could have been a key

I didn’t understand love’s power,
didn’t know to use it
so the ones I loved would feel encouraged,
safe, encircled, ready to go forth
to meet their own exigencies with love

I ask myself, well,
how much more of love
do you know now?
And are you able
to shine the light in such a way
that it illuminates instead of blinding?

And if I am, and when I am,
then all those other times of love
will also be redeemed. 
That is the way of love,
and love will teach me how.

©Wendy Mulhern

October 25, 2019

Thursday, May 25, 2017

At the Beach














Sweet and masterful mom
speaks gently, no hidden venom
beneath her directives

Her children respond 
without trauma,
gentle interest
leading their pursuits

In this world where so many
voice their alarm about the days,
this simple presence holds
hope for the future,
we can all learn to embody
these kind ways.

©Wendy Mulhern

May 25, 2017